June - I was on a time frame kick. Seems like I could write every post about it.

Question your YOUR your time frames. How much are you allowing horse not to get it? How much is that you being too easy on yourself? It's not that you have to become Attila, just ask yourself if you MIGHT be able to get a bit more from you and horse. And then, how are you going to go about getting it? And when you see the result, can you ask for more? Was it too easy? If so, you haven't been asking enough from either of you. Go for more.

If something scared horse 3 years ago...SO WHAT! It's not scaring him now and both of you need to get over it and on with it.